
We all have those golden nuggets of wisdom and practical tips passed down to us from friends, family, or even complete strangers - those phrases that stick with us and guide us through life’s twists and turns.
Recently, I asked my incredible Digg community on Instagram and Facebook: "What is the best piece of advice you have ever been given? " The responses flooded in, each more thoughtful and inspiring than the last.
Here’s some of the fantastic advice they shared. These insights cover everything from mindset and personal growth to relationships and parenting. Keep reading to find out the ones that had the most impact on me.
Mindset and Perspective
What other people think of you is none of your business. You know your truth.
If it's not going to matter in five years, don't spend more than five minutes being upset about it.
Don’t sweat the small stuff. It’s all small stuff.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't go to for advice.
Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change.
Don't let your past define you.
Other people's perspective of you is not your reality.
Don’t worry about things that haven’t happened yet. One day at a time.
Nothing lasts forever. If you’re going through a bad patch, it will pass.
Don't try to get in a year what it took your parents twenty-five years to do.
The past is history, the future is a mystery, and today is a gift - be present.
Even in the toughest of times, the sun always shines again. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
It’s wise to look ahead, but foolish to look further than what you can see!
What’s for you won’t pass you.
Better to look at it than look for it.
Always remember the bowl you were baked in.
Don't be afraid of large corporate clients. We are all just people.
It’s all about mindset - focus on the now, let go of what you can’t control, and trust that things will work out, even when life gets tough.
In 2024, I struggled with so many things. However, I am very aware that in five years, even one year, I won't remember these struggles. So, that piece of advice listed at Number 2 has helped me move past those worries.
My favourite piece of advice from this list is Number 10 - "Nothing lasts forever. If you're going through a bad patch, it will pass." I repeat this to myself constantly. "This too shall pass."
Personal Growth and Confidence
Feel the fear and do it anyway.
You will never be criticised by someone doing more than you.
You can do anything you put your mind to.
Nobody else is lying awake at night worrying about you working late/taking on too much at work.
Gratitude is the key to happiness.
Don't be a busy fool.
Be you, do you and the right people will love you, and the wrong people will walk away.
If it’s done but not perfect, it’s still done. Move on!
Don’t hesitate - go with your gut.
If the plan isn’t working, change the plan, not the goal.
Live every day like it’s your last and have no regrets.
Expect the unexpected.
Get the bits of paper (qualifications) they will take you anywhere - keep learning.
Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don’t say it mean.
Use your experience, don't let your experience use you.
Just do it. Stop doubting yourself.
No one ever on their deathbed said, 'I should have worked more.'
Ten two-letter words - 'If it is to be, it is up to me!'
Always have some debt. It gets you out of bed.
These tips remind us to be ourselves and take bold steps, even when fear tries to hold us back. Confidence builds when we keep moving forward.
When I was reading through all of these there was one which hit me the hardest, Number 17. I don't want to be on my deathbed or to be at the end of my life and regret working so much that I forgot to live. I remind myself of this when I get consumed by work and it helps me to close the laptop, put down the phone, and be present with my family. They are what matters the most.
Relationships
'No' is a complete sentence when it needs to be. You don't owe an explanation to anyone.
Never go to bed angry/upset - make up with your partner.
Just turn up - be there when you said you would, be there for others and turn up for yourself.
Always kiss goodbye.
Don't worry about the opinion of someone you wouldn't take advice from.
Always be kind; you never know what someone is going through.
Pick your battles!!!
Don't ask as you leave it open for discussion.
When you point the finger at someone else there are three pointing back at you.
Listen to all and say nothing.
Know your worth and walk away from those who don’t.
When supporting someone in difficulty, no matter how you feel, it’s not about you.
Marriage is not all a bed of roses.
You can't control how others react, you can only control your reaction to it.
It's a long road with no turning - in other words if someone has been mean, it will come back on them.
A closed mouth never gets fed.
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.
When challenged by someone, think ... 'How can I bring love to this situation?'
It takes a special person to take a child’s life into their hands; trust in their care.
Just offer it as a piece of information. No need to justify, explain or feel guilty.
Relationships can thrive when kindness and good communication are at the heart of them. These tips remind us to show up for others and also take care of ourselves by setting boundaries.
This is a deep one and one I'm sure we all learn about every day. Relationships with people are so important but sometimes they are hard to nurture and they can have a deep effect on our lives. Number 14 is very powerful. We have to be so aware of our own reactions to people and situations. We can't control others so we have to stay true to ourselves. I always try to remember this when the going gets tough with someone in my life.
This is just the beginning of the incredible wisdom shared by our Digg community. I am so lucky to be surrounded by positive uplifting people who are willing to share their advice.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll share even more of your words of wisdom.
In the meantime, which piece of advice stood out to you? Send me a message on any of our socials.
Caroline AKA Digg Mama
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